What Makes A Good Man [Husband]? (A sneak peek of the woman's perspective to one of the most critical gender questions of the 21st century)
It was past 11pm of a Sunday evening, my heart was burning hot with questions that I needed answers to, but could not figure out on my own. As I grew increasingly restless, I decided to reach out to my friend Ayo. I get clarity sharing with her, and I was desperate for some of that. The following narrative is a summary of the conversation that ensued. I believe that this conversation is one that every man should read, and not just men, but the women in their lives. **** I knew it was a bit too late to be messaging Ayo, but I was going to take the chance. I needed to get these thoughts out of my head. So I shot Ayo a message. Me: Hey Ayo, [are you] free? Ayo: Hello, yeah. Me: I wanted to run some things by you to get some clarity. Is that fine by you? Ayo: Please go ahead. Me: As a young lady yeah? What are the things that you would see in a young man to 100% know that he'd make a good husband? Ayo : Hmmm...dicey question. To be honest, what will make a ...